Knox McCoy reflects on male youth group culture and why we need to reconsider the evangelical approach to purity culture, and he shares how he has the conversation about masculinity and sex with his own children. We also talk about how the depiction of male and female sexuality has changed from Superbad in 2007 to […]
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35: A Pastor Says #MeToo
Trigger warning: Episode contains references to rape and sexual assault. The #MeToo movement isn’t just about the Harvey Weinsteins of the world. It’s also about Christians leaders in positions of power who wield that power for evil. Pastor, author, and speaker Ruth Everhart survived an assault and dealt with an abusive senior pastor in […]
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34: Real Talk On Race And Relationships
Get ready to learn today from Faitth Brooks and Kathryn Freeman about what it’s like to navigate the world as a single, Black, Christian woman. We talk about purity culture, dating and dating apps, and evangelical perceptions of what makes a “good” woman. Use this episode as a tool to better understand your African […]
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33: What Comes After Grief
Or is there even an after? K.J. Ramsey writes in her book This Too Shall Last, that “this is not a before and after story,” because maybe the secret to grief is that we carry it with us as we flow through life. Maybe the secret is not a secret. It is our bodies, gifted, […]
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32: Naming Your Unspoken Grief
You know when you feel crazy and wonder, “Is it me?” Spoiler alert: IT’S NOT YOU. We invite you to examine these situations to find the unnamed grief that may lie beneath the crazy. Whether it is prolonged singleness, impending divorce, multiple childhood moves, or scheduling a wedding during a pandemic, we all experience losses […]