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(83) On Premarital Sex: Re-imagining Celibacy

Purity culture told us to wait to have sex because one day (for sure) we would get married and have “really hot sex.” Today we invite you to examine another aspect of the premarital sex conversation – celibacy. But let’s re-imagine it with Pieter Valk and Dani Treweek, a therapist and a minister who are […]

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82: Break Free From Unwanted Sexual Behavior

Therapist and author Jay Stringer joins us today to help us address a listener question. “What do you think are the best concrete steps that men can take to retrain themselves to develop healthy relationships with women?” The answers are easier AND harder than you might imagine.  Watch the episode on YouTube Hear what Jay […]

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81 On Premarital Sex: What Are the Rules When There Are No Rules?

We are going THERE. This is the start of a two-part series about premarital sex. Today Matthias Roberts joins us to help those of you open to considering what breaking some of your former rules might look like.  (Note: In October you’ll hear part two, a discussion about celibacy.) Join The Jess & Devi Show […]

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80: Masculinity Needs Definitions

Did you hear our new intro? Yes, we are here to untangle sex, self, and community for a new generation of Christians. Leave behind purity culture, and save what matters. Together, let’s rebuild life and faith with Jesus at the center, so you can figure out where will you go from here? We untangle together […]

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BONUS: Reflections on Christian Celebrity After ‘I Survived I Kissed Dating Goodbye’

When Jessica van der Wyngaard created the film I Survived I Kissed Dating Goodbye, she had to face her own toxic relationship with Christian celebrity culture. For the first time on our show, she talks about what it was like to make the film, a film people would largely credit to Josh Harris. And she […]