(83) On Premarital Sex: Re-imagining Celibacy

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Purity culture told us to wait to have sex because one day (for sure) we would get married and have “really hot sex.” Today we invite you to examine another aspect of the premarital sex conversation – celibacy. But let’s re-imagine it with Pieter Valk and Dani Treweek, a therapist and a minister who are committed to living without sex as single people. 

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Show Notes:

God’s Voice Within by Mark Thibodeaux
Kingdom Calling: Vocational Stewardship for the Common Good by Amy Sherman
Pieter Valk
Nashville Family of Brothers
Dani Treweek
Single Minded

Pieter Valk is a licensed professional counselor, the director of EQUIP (, and cofounder of the Nashville Family of Brothers (, an ecumenically Christian brotherhood for men called to vocational singleness. He helps churches love gay people and celibate Christians find family. Follow Pieter @pieterlvalk on all platforms.

Rev’d. Dr Danielle Treweek is a Christian pastor, leader and theologian with a ministry focus on biblical singleness, sexuality, worldview formation & other related topics. Dani completed a Doctorate through St Mark’s National Theological Centre and Charles Sturt University. Her doctoral thesis is titled, ‘The End of Singleness? Towards a Theological Retrieval of Singleness for the Contemporary Church’. She is an ordained Anglican deacon, has served on staff at a number of different churches and is the founding director of the Single Minded ministry. She has an upcoming book on singleness due to be published by IVP in 2022. Connect with Dani here, and find out more about Single Minded here